It's funny how we can hold on to people who never really gave us the time of day. We build them up in our minds, thinking that if we just try a little harder, they'll finally see how amazing we are. But the truth is, some people just aren't worth the effort.
I know this from experience. I had someone in my life who I thought was my friend. But every time I tried to spend time with them, they were always too busy. Every time I reached out, they never seemed interested in what I had to say.
For a long time, I kept trying. I thought that if I just showed them how much I cared, they would eventually come around. But the more I tried, the more I realized that they just weren't worth it. They didn't value my time or my friendship, and I was just wasting my energy on someone who didn't care.
So I made the decision to let them go. It wasn't easy, but it was necessary. I realized that I deserved better than someone who couldn't even give me the time of day. I deserved friends who valued my time and my friendship, who were there for me when I needed them.
It's been a liberating experience, letting go of someone who never really cared about me. I've found new friends who value my time and my friendship, and who are always there for me when I need them. And I've realized that sometimes, letting go of someone who never gave you the time of day is the best thing you can do for yourself.
So if you're holding on to someone who doesn't value your time or your friendship, know that it's okay to let them go. You deserve friends who care about you and who are there for you when you need them. Don't waste your energy on someone who doesn't appreciate you. Let them go, and make room in your life for people who do.
-Sarah
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